What Men Really Want
What do men want in a relationship? Ladies, men want to feel respected. What does that mean? Communicate that he is adequate, that you are thankful for who he is and what he is doing in your life, and you have to share that consistently. Get my PROVEN system of communication, building love and value and respect in your relationship for FREE!
That's the tension.
If you just let that go, how many arguments would you not have? If you just understood. Your spouse will not think like you. Your partner will not think like you. They are different. They're unique. They're not you. They won't agree with you. That's okay. Value them for them. Appreciate and value your own idea. Accept their idea, if it's not yours. Accept that it's theirs. IT'S OKAY..
Working on yourself is the only thing we really can control in a relationship. Knowing what kind of partner or spouse you want to be. Your partner/spouse experience with your behavior is based on there experience with you. The question is what can you do to become a better version of yourself? To create the ideal experience for your spouse or partner. You can only control YOU. Not your partner of spouse, the best we can hope for is to influence them. Influence is based on what they experience